First post of 2014 and 3 months into the year already! So many things have happened~! My exams are finally over but busy times never ever. busy preparing for something important in April and I'm going to take part in NDP again this year! Honestly, I didn't want to after last year cause while I enjoyed it, there were some horrible experiences from it.

But hey, live life to the fullest, experience everything while you are still young and have the chance.

This past week has been particularly... emotional? After hearing things and helping people, just really starts reflecting on some things about relationships, not just between couples, but between friends as well.

The friend might be someone you treasure a lot, but sometimes it's just best to let go if they don't get it. Let go when you know you have tried, sure you might regret it now but who knows? Some day down the road, you guys might meet again, you guys might be friends again. Know that you can only help someone so much. This week I have both lost and gained an important friend. Life is unpredictable, sometimes we make choices we regret but who knows, maybe one day down the road we can repair things.

The next few things are more towards relationships.

This one is more for the girls... Honestly, I used to think this way. "Hey I'm having my period now, mood swing, you should give me more leeway. I get to be angry, sad, and you should understand why." Eyyyy, NO. Just cause you are having your period, doesn't mean your guy should give in to you about everything and suffer. Sure, they have to be a bit more understanding about your mood swings but that doesn't mean you should abuse that "understanding" and let yourself get our of hand. Why should guys suffer when we have our mood swings or whatever? Rather then venting everything on your guy, treasure your time with him. Remember, the guy you love the most is capable of making you happy at any time, ONLY if you allow him to. This mood swing might be the very reason you lose him, and it's a stupid ass reason.

The next one is for both guys and girls. DON'T TAKE YOUR SHIT TO FACEBOOK, TWITTER, WHATEVER SOCIAL NETWORKING SITE IT IS. Ok, I'm guilty of it in the past, I admit. Whenever I quarrelled with him, I would take it to Facebook to taunt him, especially when I was ignored. Take it from me, don't do that. Your quarrel should just stay between the both of you, not good to let too many people know least they become too nosy. Also, it creates a terrible impression about your relationship, sooner or later everyone will be like "Ohhhh, they are at it again. Whatever." Settle things privately. Wouldn't want to cause a terrible misunderstanding now would we?

Always try to be the more mature, understanding one in the relationship. Never focus only on your needs, but your significant other's as well. Sure he/she might be older then you, but who says you can't be the more mature one? The one who looks at the bigger picture, the one who is both understanding but strict when the time is right. Take the time to understand your partner, not just his or her weird habits, but more then that.

Their dreams, their ambitions, their fears. Everything. When you do, you will find your relationship working out better. Why? Because you understand them a little more now.

Do NOT take for granted their love for you. Maybe, just maybe, you don't realize it, but you are taking it for granted. Maybe you think you are doing more then enough, but are you? Preparing lunch, doing things for them, sure that's sweet and all. But when it comes down to the moments that really matter, do you love them enough to give in at the right moment, before things get worse? Don't abuse their love for you. Just cause they love you doesn't mean you can get all rage-y at them and get away with it every time, you might just regret it someday.

Oh, and don't say that they should be the one to give in to you first if not it just means that they don't love you as much as you love them, doesn't the same logic apply to you?

The next one is super taboo yet everyone does it. Don't, and I really mean it, DON'T use the phrase "break up" so easily in a relationship, especially during petty quarrels don't go all stupid halfway and be like "you want break is it? Break jiu break la!" You bloody moron -A-!!! And when you guys really do break because you used this phrase casually once again you will regret all the way to your death, I guarantee you. Relationships in the past lasted cause when something was wrong, they fixed it. What about relationships now? Why are they so fragile? Because the word "break up" is used so casually and always is seen as a solution. I saw this on Tumblr the other day.